Manhattanvixen’s Blog

Every once in a while a man who’s in a relationship gets nervous, he wants to see if he has a chance with women he’s wanted - and for whatever reason – he’s never had has left the window open.

A few weeks ago I get a text from the unnamed ‘Cayanne’ of an earlier entry letting me know he was having trouble making it work with his girlfriend but he was off to play squash and would talk to me later.

Okay. Odd. Maybe a bad day.

Then I wake up to a bbm saying “guess who’s gonna be single soon” my response “any one exciting?”

That got him going about how he’s really trying to make it work.  Men want to know there is another option out there, especially when the girl they pick isn’t the one they always envisioned, type, looks, background.  But what they don’t realize is a girl will remember how they reached out when they were coupled up: flattered? sometimes.  loving attention? probably.  do we want to think if we are with them they’d do the same? No way in hell.

Today, he proceeds to tell me how I shouldn’t be so hard on him… wait?! What?!

Just sayin…

xVix